Posted by: eitchy on: July 13, 2009
This is the first book by Dorothy Koomson that I’ve read, maybe it’ll be the last as well, many reviews I’ve read mean that this is her best book, by far. (Someone refered to My Best Friend’s Girl as a waste of paper)
It tackles the age old question; can men and women be friends without sex and love getting in the way? Mal and Nova have known each other forever and are each other’s support, trustees and, in many ways, family.
For Nova it is almost natural to agree to be the surrogate mother of Mal and his wife Stephanie’s child. All three are happy with the agreement until the Mal and Stephanie change their mind, leaving Nova pregnant, alone and without explanations.
Eight years later; Mal and Stephanie’s marriage is rocky, Nova has married Keith who has taken over the Dad role for her son Leo, who is in a coma with an uncertain outcome. Mal and Nova, once best friends, have not spoken since Mal told her they didn’t want the baby.
Despite being about friendship between a man and a woman, it is not the question “will they or won’t they” that the author has decided to focus on. She has in stead decided to focus on what choices they have made to end up where they ended up, the question being “Why?” Stephanie and Nova take turn narrating the book and we are given insights into both women’s thoughts and reasoning behind their actions. It also gives more depth to the story and not just making it one-sided. It probably would have been harder, but it would have been nice with Mal’s point of view as well, not just the women.
Even without Mal, the story was interesting and had many depths. I enjoyed reading this book, by the end I couldn’t put it down. It’s a typical relationship book, with the focus on friendship in stead of romance, and I must say the ending is beautiful.
Grade: Seven of ten.
Posted by: eitchy on: July 9, 2009
Well, I have a horrible job sending me to France for one week to attend visits and lectures. In between those I met some wonderful people and enjoyed Paris and Normandie, ate some good food and drank some good wine.
Some of the things I’ve done:
Seen the war memorial at Sainte Mère Eglise

Let my feet take a bath in the English channel

Seen the Notre Dame in sunset

Seen a dried out creek at Trocadero

Last but not least, two very famous sites:


Posted by: eitchy on: June 25, 2009
Yet another new start for my blog and my blogging. I removed the baking and cooking categories and will probably add a photography category. I want to have more pictures in my blog and I think I will challenge myself. I’ve seen on the net that they have these photo challenges in which you should post three pictures on a specific theme each week, I will try to do that. I might not enter any challenges and do it more for me.
I deleted my other blog, which was more analytical, to focus on this, my more "shallow" blog. I enjoy the things I put in this blog, so I will focus on that. Maybe I’ll change directions again later on, maybe I’ll start another blog for another purpose, I really don’t know.
What I do know is that I want to focus on this blog (and myself) right now, I want to contact other crafty bloggers and I want to get crafting again.
Also, seven months after we first ordered it, our modem is now waiting for us at the post office. We’ll have broadband at home again! This opens up for better blogging, more opportunities to post pictures and make contacts.
A fresh start (and this start will be dampered as I’m going to Paris next week), but still!
Posted by: eitchy on: June 22, 2009
I haven’t had the time lately to be crafty, we’ve had plans for many weekends and in the evenings there’s so much else that needs to be done. I would prefer to be able to sit at least an hour with any project, but maybe I should realise that I can’t spoil myself like that and instead just do a little work whenever I have some extra time.
I will from now on try to be less controlled by the TV and in stead do things. Crafting or taking walks. I was at a party this weekend and my, all the girls were skinny, I felt so big. Then I thought to myself that why spend two hours each night in front of the TV in stead of doing things? So I’m trying to change.
As for new projects, I don’t know why, but I got an urge to sew aprons. I have one, store-bought, that is pretty ugly and old. So I would love to make myself two aprons, one full and one half. Here’s where the jealousy comes in. Whenever I look at other blogs, Burdastyle, any place where I can see creations really, I get jealous. Everyone has such fabulous fabrics, and writes about visiting several stores just soaking up the inspiration there. I don’t have many fabric stores near me. In the town where I work there’s two fashion fabric stores (the others are more for interior design and curtains), one in the other nearby town and that’s it. Three stores relatively nearby. And there’s not much rotation on the fabrics so very often it’s the same things every time I go there. So, yes, I’m jealous of those having plenty of stores to choose from.
But for now it’ll be a plaid maxi dress and possibly some aprons (if I can find a good fabric for it in my stash).
However, I don’t think it will be much crafting in the near future, because on Sunday I’m leaving for Paris. I will be there for one week, returning on the next Sunday, so that’s two weekends “to waste”.
Posted by: eitchy on: June 17, 2009
(I really like the post by e-mail option. It makes it easier to blog.)
Anyway. When it’s a slow work day, or a busy day, but the calculations I do are locking up my computer, I spend some time reading blogs. Mostly sewing blogs. It makes me envious. Many blogs are so nice, with plenty of updates, pictures, tutorials. Updating along the way of a project, not just the finished garment, tips and tricks and so much more. When reading these blogs I feel inspired. When looking at my own blog, I’m not sure I’d read it if it wasn’t mine.
I do like to write about different subjects, such as movies, cooking, sewing, books and everything else I write about, but still keep it easy-going and (hopefully) interesting.
One thing I want to do is to add more pictures. To those posts where it makes sense, anyway. For example, I’m not sure that this post would benefit from having pictures since I wouldn’t be able to find any pictures that relate to the post. However, when I’m drooling over a fabric, fighting with a pattern, have read a book, seen a movie, cooked or baked something, I’m sure pictures would go a long way. I will make an effort to put more pictures in post as I write them (if it’s possible, I don’t always have pictures) and update my old posts with pictures (which I’ll have to find or take myself first.
As for all the blogs that I read at least weekly, that inspire me, I have begun a list in my right column (so far only Weekend Designer is there). However, I got to thinking of netiquette. Should I tell the people that I’m linking to them? I mean if someone’s linking to me, I would want to know, but for more of an ego boost than the netiquette reasons. I should ask – or at least tell. I’m sure somone’s having an open blog wouldn’t mind being linked to, I wouldn’t. But I will give them the ego boost of telling them (and perhaps get my name out there in the process).
I will strive to make my blog more fun, more interesting and more frequently updated. So please don’t leave!
Posted by: eitchy on: June 15, 2009
I’m stuck. I have no inspiration, currently no aspirations either. I read plenty of blogs, I see their great creations, their daily outfits, they all look so good. And then there’s me.
I don’t like the way my body looks, the fashion is not made for my body shape (even if I had been thinner), I can’t find the motivation to sew something. I have a beautiful plaid fabric at home, meant for this dress, but the motivation’s not there. And this is a fabric I fell in love with when I saw it. Yesterday I finished this blouse in a creme crepe fabric, it wasn’t as easy as I thought and I’m not sure of the outcome. I must be better at making clothes looked finished and polished.
But I can’t find clothing that I like, and it doesn’t help that I’m a little bigger than I care for, but I really miss that I don’t dream of anything. I don’t think that something would look great, only not to find it, I just don’t know what to dream of.
At least I hope I can find the courage to cut into my beautiful plaid fabric.
Posted by: eitchy on: June 15, 2009
I really hate my blog’s name. Eitchy’s blog. I’m pleased with Eitchy as my alias, but the blog name leaves much to be desired. When I started the blog it was called In a World of my Own, back then I did more observations and wrote about the world around me. Now that I have changed the blog’s direction, with a more creativity focus (crafting, reading writing etc.) I’m lost for a name.
In a World of my Own doesn’t really work anymore, but I can’t figure out what I’d like. I tried Crafting, Reading, Sewing…Living for an hour the other week, but it didn’t feel right. Since I don’t have one concrete topic for this blog it’s hard.
Any ideas?
Posted by: eitchy on: June 13, 2009
I don’t know how my new life is coming along. I went shopping looking at clothes yesterday. I found a nice pair of pants for only €4.5, too good to be true. But they were high-waisted and my entire gut came below the waist line; I looked pregnant. Not just the “is she or isn’t she”-pregnant, but really beyond confusion pregnant. Too bad since I liked the pants and they were cheap. I really need new pants for summer, I’d like a grey pair, but I’m very picky and after yesterday’s dressing room experience I’m in no mood to get back in any changing room.
I haven’t had time to get to the gym as often as I would have liked. It’s been some graduations and other gatherings away from here, not only stealing time, but also serving unhealthy food. I don’t want to exclude everything, so for special occasions I try to eat less, but I don’t skip anything. And the eating less part isn’t always easy. But I must force myself.
I wanted a new cookbook, I think we need some new dishes and inspiration is never wrong. So I was browsing the bookstore and noticed that they had a shelf with 50 % on the sale price on some books that had been left over since the sale. And I found what seemed to be a great cookbook (this was last week and we still haven’t had the time to try anything from it). It was a health cookbook with focus one light and easy cooking. It had many influences from Asia and Africa and I think that we can find some good, easy and healthy recipes in it.
So, hopefully, I’m on my way down in weight. I know that since I’m not making any radical changes it will be a slow process, but I’m hoping it will result in a healthier me.
Posted by: eitchy on: June 13, 2009
I usually don’t do PSAs. But now I’m going to. Two PSAs in one post. I’m getting on my high horse. The first one is just for you; the second is a good deed. I’ve done both of these things in the past month.
PSA one; Pap Smear
It’s a procedure that takes five minutes. The procedure is done to detect early cell changes on the cervix; if unnoticed and untreated, these changes can lead to cervical cancer. Sure it’s an uncomfortable situation. However, if it goes beyond cell changes and more radical treatment is needed, I’m sure that that situation will be more uncomfortable. Not to mention, scary.
It seriously took me five minutes to get my Pap Smear. I still have to wait for the results, but if they have found cell changes in an early stage it is easily treatable. These should be done on a three year-interval; I shamefully must admit that it’s been four years since my last test. But now I’m back on track.
Considering that this is something you do for yourself, there really is no excuse not to do it. So just get it done. It might be embarrassing and uncomfortable while there, but it passes quickly and you’ll find out if you’re healthy or will need a minor treatment.
The other PSA is not for you, it’s a good deed. We all expect that if something was to happen to ourselves or a loved one, the closest hospital will help us. While that is true, there is still one thing that money can’t buy. The hospital may have the latest equipment, great doctors and nurses, but the one thing money cannot buy is blood.
This is why I’m a blood donor.
It takes about 30 minutes; you donate a pint of blood. You’re not supposed to do heavy exercise after that, but besides that, it’s not really noticeable in you. Where I go you get juices and lemonades, also some bread and cookies. You’re supposed to eat before donating and make sure that you stay hydrated, other than that, it’s nothing to it. You have to sincerely fill out a form regarding your health and the blood gets tested before it’s put to use. That means that you’ll get a health check when donating blood as well; you’ll get tested for HIV and hepatitis and your blood value gets a check as well.
Think about it. Can you take 30 minutes out of your time every three to four months to do something valuable? To ensure that the patients that come into a hospital can get the treatment they need. The next time it may be someone close to that needs blood. I would expect it to be there for them, so I’ll do my share to make sure. Can you do yours?
Posted by: eitchy on: June 1, 2009
OK, this is it. I must take control of my body once again; I’ve let myself slip too far. And this is the farthest I’ve slipped.
I must keep up my gym twice a week routine, however it’s hard when I travel for work. But then I will do it once a week.
Walks on the days I don’t go to the gym. I must find batteries, or buy new ones, for my MP3-player. Music will make it easier. I might try running as well, but I’m having a problem with my claves. They hurt like hell when I run and I don’t know why. Boyfriend can’t figure out why, a co-worker said that she had the same problem and one day it just stopped hurting, when her calves had gotten stronger. Maybe I’ll start with the treadmill since it’s more sparing on your legs.
Eat healthier, or at least eat less. Stop before I’m full. Just eat what I need, not have seconds just because it tastes well. Less sweets, cookies and cakes (OK, I don’t eat as much as it sounded like, but I can still eat less). No cups of hot cocoa at work, tea or water in stead.
I bought a Pilates book last week, so I will try and do some of that if I’m not doing anything else. I’m imagining doing this outside, in the morning (if the weather’s nice). Unfortunately boyfriend “steals” all the yard work that could be considered exercise (such as mowing the lawn) and I’m left with clearing the weeds, a job that needs to be done, but just involves standing still. I should mow the lawn next time, maybe even using the manual lawnmower as opposed to the one boyfriend uses which runs on gasoline.
But today, June 1, is the first day. My goal; a happier, healthier, more fit Eitchy!
Posted by: eitchy on: May 16, 2009
The other day, as I was walking to the bus stop, I was approached by a well-dressed young man handling out pamphlets. I declined; I often do that, especially if I can’t see what it is just by looking at them. What was weird was that a girl was in his company, she had a more alternative look; they made an odd pair. Out goes my theories about politics and I started to get curios. However, I didn’t feel like asking for a pamphlet, when I had previously declined.
As it turned out, they walked to the same bus stop as me and handed out some pamphlets there. Obviously some people took them without wanting them and threw them on the ground. And so, I could read it…
It was for a free personality test at the local test centre. You could test your happiness and intelligence based on your relationships and personality. The name was ambiguous, the purpose was ambiguous; all I could think of was Trapped in the Closet
Today I did some Googling and it turned out I was right. The URL on the pamphlet does go to a test centre but all of your information is needed in order to get your results. I did not do it.
I have for a long time believed Scientology to be a cult, scamming people. However, I have not known the methods used by them (besides using celebrities) because they have not been active here. As I’m writing this, I now remember that there was an article in the paper just a few weeks ago that the scientologists were opening a local chapter, didn’t think of that yesterday.
So, what’s my point as this somehow falls outside of my blogging parameters. It kind of scared me. There are many easy targets out there that could fall for this, especially in the financial crisis that is sweeping the world. I don’t like it when someone tries to convince another of the right way to live, and particularly not those who are using people.
Also, I learned something from South Park. Who would’ve thought?
Posted by: eitchy on: May 9, 2009
On the back of The Other Hand by Chris Cleave it says that they won’t tell us what the book is about. Furthermore when we recommend it they ask of us not to say anything either since the magic is in how the story evolves. I agree with this statement and will try not to disclose any major plot spoilers.
The book is a story of two women, with a deeper bond than one might imagine. The story is told with these two women as narrators. The bond between them is discovered and developed.
It’s hard to recommend a book when I don’t want to give away anything. But the back is right, the magic of the story, or at least part of it, lies in how it is unfolded, and it is quite refreshing not to know anything, even what to expect. We get to know these people, their history, their future, their inner thoughts, things that they are not proud of. And it works out perfectly through all of the book and until the very last page.
The story comes full circle by the end of the book, and the story stays with you, at least it stayed with me. I find myself thinking of the story more with this book than with books I usually read. It’s important and current. The characters are developed, complex and believable, the languages these women speak are perfect, especially considering their words was written by a man.
I really can’t say more. It was an amazing book, the story stays with me and I do recommend it. I hope someone will take this recommendation and discover the magic of this book, it was truly magical.
In the US and Canada the book will be released under the title Little Bee.
Posted by: eitchy on: May 7, 2009
Two things about the past week:
Burdastyle Sewing Clubs. What a teaser, just putting up the US clubs, making us “internationals” waiting one more week. I haven’t signed up, but I’m hoping that soemone from my area has. It would be great to meet some sewers around here. I haven’t decided if I will sign up if nobody else does. I will at least wait for the list next week. Like I said, how mean to get the IS clubs started and making the rest of us (the majority, I suppose) wait another week.
I signed up at Burdafashion as well. Before you could get their free patterns without being registered, but now you have to be registered to take part. It doesn’t really matter since it’s free. What I noticed on this site (which has nothing to do with being registered) is that you can see the features from the latest Burda WoF. This means that I can see what patterns I would be getting if I was to buy the magazine. For some reason the magazine comes in a plastic bag, so you buy the magazine based on the headlines on the cover. You really don’t know what you’re going to get. I understand this, but I find it odd because the Plus size version of the magazine comes without plastic.
That’s what I’ve learned the past week, and something to look forward to for next week. I hope someone will do a sewing club near me; it would (hopefully) be so much fun.
Posted by: eitchy on: May 3, 2009
It’s an autobiography by Corinne Hofmann, on how she leaves her safe world in Switzerland when she is hit by the big passion. She falls in love with a Samburu warrior, Lketinga, and decides to live with him and his family in the African countryside. She stays there for four years, gets married, overcomes illnesses and cultural diversion and creates her own everyday life there. At first the cultural differences are exciting and intriguing for her, later they become the base for many fights and misunderstandings between her and her husband. Four years of passion, love, hardship, jealousy and culture clashes. An interesting base for a book.
We get to follow her everyday life for four years; the good, the bad and everything in between. The book is written in a simple language and it’s not very thick so it’s a very quick read. However, while interesting, it leaves something to be desired. Descriptions. Descriptions are lacking, both of surroundings and the people. After reading a book that takes place for four years in Kenya, I have no idea what the place looks like until I saw the pictures in the middle of the book. And those pictures where just of the camp where the couple lived, nothing on the towns and other places they visited; I had to use Wikipedia for those. And I know nothing of the people. Well, I do, but it’s almost to the point of caricatures, where one part of the personality is high-lighted. For the first half of the book Lketinga is beautiful, but Corinne seems to be driven by passion rather than love, for the second half he is reduced to a controlling, jealous man, even though Corinne talks about how she still loves him, it is very hard to, he has been reduced to a one-dimensional person.
The book is more a line-up of people and situations, not a description of the people and the places. Both things are needed to make a book interesting and captivating, so therefore the book is only half-way there. Because to me, if I read a book that takes place in Africa, particularly in a part of Africa that is not often featured in moves or television, I had hoped to know more about the place, more about the surroundings, what does it look like there? Why do they have the ceremonies that we feel are strange? How do the people feel about the white woman wanting to live there? Some questions are answered, and in detail, whereas the questions about the bigger picture are left unanswered.
The story is interesting, too bad the writing and narration leaves things to be desired.
Posted by: eitchy on: May 1, 2009
I’ve probably been on and on about this before, but if I have, it just goes to show that I’m no nearer a solution now than I was then. OK, I’m most likely making this sound more dramatic than it is; it’s my quest to find my personal style.
During my Christmas vacation I was watching a couple of What Not to Wear and got inspired. I do believe that your clothes influence how you feel. I don’t feel bad about myself I just feel boring. When I look in my closet I feel bored an uninspired, I don’t want to feel that way anymore.
I’m no stranger to reading fashion blogs and an occasional magazine, I like getting inspiration but when it comes to applying them to my daily wardrobe it’s harder.
First of all; money. I have a well-paying job, but I’m not a big spender. When I was a student I didn’t have that much money (enough, but not much), then I became unemployed and had no money. This mental block has not let go even though I now have much more money. Furthermore, I’ve never been able to understand just how much money some people can spend on one garment. I never splurge (splurging to me would be coffee money for some, not that “some” in this case have more money than me, just a different view).
Second; fit. I have a body type that doesn’t fit in anywhere. It’s hard to find clothes that look good and fit. I know Trinny and Susannah’s rules, but I’m not good at finding those things. It feels like everything is made for those of size zero, maybe a two and a four if they’re pushing it. It’s not that I can’t find clothes in my size; it’s that the clothes don’t look good on me. I have a rather large chest and I’m “normal” in waist and hip size. So once I find something that fits over my chest it just hangs down from there, giving me no shape at all. High necklines, stripes, and clothes that are impossible to wear bras underneath. The fashion bloggers, who mostly are women with children’s bodies, rave over the new fluffy skirt, which only works if you have no hips; no woman with hips would make them want to seem wider.
Third; my perception of myself. I have a pretty good outlook of my body. I don’t hate it, although I currently feel I should be more fit (too far from the gym during Christmas/New Year, then I got a bad cold that is clinging. But soon). When I see great outfits, in magazines, blogs or just my head, I like them. But I can’t see myself in them. I can’t see my lifestyle in them. And to be honest, in a way I worry what people will say. Not in the bad way, but in the overly encouraging way. “Don’t you look nice today?” “Some special occasion?” If I wear a skirt or a dress people will think I’ve dressed up, even though it’s really nothing special. If I’d be at the same level, but with pants no one would comment.
I’m thinking that obviously I shouldn’t care. But how will I feel in those clothes? I’m currently eyeing a faux leather skirt in the latest Burda magazine, as well as a tight jersey dress. How will I feel in an outfit that looks good in a magazine? Will it look as good on me? Can I get it right? Will my attempts of a personal style cross the line into weird? I don’t know.
All I know is that I’m bored with my clothes. I haven’t bought much new things because I haven’t found that much in the past years, I suck at shopping. And I’m a coward. I don’t dare to try new things or something that is not “normal”. Especially if it’s expensive.
How will I look in a faux leather skirt combined with a satin blouse? How will I feel? Will I be the person that I see in my head or will it look like I’m playing dress-up? Hard questions and I must find the answer within myself, the hardest place to look.
Posted by: eitchy on: April 25, 2009
In the midst of moving, with nothing at home, I fled the apartment into the world of the supernatural that is Twilight, and let my inner teenager fall for Edward Cullen.
Since I’ve read, and loved, the book I told myself that the movie would not be as good, but that doesn’t mean that I cannot enjoy it for what it is. And enjoy it I did.

To me it gave a more nuanced image, as we did not have to hear all of Bella’sramblings on how perfect Edward is, his god-like body and wondering "what he sees in me". But still Robert Pattinson was hot as Edward.
When I read a book I very rarely put faces on people, for most part they’re just faceless people; they can smile, show emotion, but they have now face. It’s weird, but that’s how it is. Even if I’m reading a book after the movie, knowing which actor plays which part, I still cannot see them, especially if I’ve seen the actor in something else. It can turn around; when I read High Fidelity I could not at all picture John Cusack as Rob, but when I saw the movie it all made sense.
Peter Facinelli as Carlisle surprised me. He looked great, was well-composed, a big change from the image I had of him as Mike Dexter in Can’t Hardly Wait. OK, so he was the only actor I’ve seen in something else and remember well (I’ve seen Elizabeth Reaser in Grey’s Anatomy, but the part of Esme wasn’t that big).
I liked the casting of Edward, Bella and Alice. Emmet and Jasper’s parts were not that big, so I didn’t get a feeling for them, Emmet looked the part, though.
As for Rosalie, she’s supposed to be the most beautiful girl in the world, but I did not see that. In a way it felt like she wasn’t beautiful enough to be such a bitch. Nikki Reid is beautiful, but something just didn’t work, if it was the blonde hair or the lipstick, Rosalie didn’t look as beautiful as she should have.
Another thing I wish they had done was the development of the relationship between Bella and the Cullens; namely Alice and Esme. In the book Esme tells her story during the baseball game, while Alice and Bella bond in the hotel in Phoenix. Those stories are important to the plot and it was bad that they decided to leave them out. Maybe a little less scenery shots would have allowed those stories to be featured, even though the scenography was beautiful. It’s not like they had to fill the movie with beautiful scenes just because the plot was thin, they had more plots to use, but chose not to. Leaving out those scenes of bonding was the one thing I truly missed from the book. Also, they shortened the time-frame of the movie, from a whole (school) year to just a few months. Why they did this I don’t know as it allows the relationship to grow and develop, not just start overnight.
Another blogger commented that the scene where Edward, wearing Wayfers, escorted Bella out of the car is already classis. She’s right. If at any point in the movie I would trade places with Bella it would be here.
My inner teenager got what she wanted. As an adult, I’m not sure I would enjoy the movie, had I not read the books. But since I have read the books, I’m already excited for the filming of New . As long as they develop other relationships more, not just Bella and Edward’s.
Posted by: eitchy on: February 28, 2009
We moved into our new house in late November and we still haven’t got a broadband connection. That’s the reason why I haven’t updated since November. I am still writing posts, so look out for plenty of them once we get our broadband; creations, general thoughts, book and film tips. Until then, you’re just going to have to make do with 211 previous posts. I hope the break won’t be too long, but so far it’s been three months, we’re hoping to have it within a month, but right now I’ve almost given up all hope on a speedy delivery.
Hope you who can enjoy the internet world are doing it, but are not letting it take over.
/Eitchy
Posted by: eitchy on: January 14, 2009
Many times have I made Burdastyle clothes. I have sometimes made things just for fun, to see if that style fits me. Many times have I recommended this site; for being a great community but also because of the free patterns. It has changed.
I’m not that stupid that I don’t understand market economy, especially in the current times, but it’s still a chock. Without warning they’ve decided to start charging for patterns. This would be fine, if it wasn’t for the fact that patterns that up until now have been free now have a price tag on them. I have downloaded a few to my computer and I also have the ones I’ve printed but I still think about those patterns when I’m browsing fabrics. But that will have to change. Maybe it was a marketing plot all along. They’d be free for two years, they’d spread the word about the sewing community which, to be honest, mostly lived on being a source for free patterns. The forum is not good in many aspects (new posts don’t get bumped, it is impossible to distinguish new posts since last visit), it’s sometimes a slow site when many people visit, people have come there for the free patterns and stayed (and endured) the rest.
The patterns were downloadable in pdf-formats, plenty of papers. You had to assemble the papers yourself or draw to get the pattern pieces. It’s work, but it was worth it since I got the pattern for free, but it was luxury those times I used a “real” pattern printed on a big sized paper where all lines were even, where I hadn’t spent hours taping them together and aligning them.
I have thought about getting a subscription to some sort of fashion/clothing magazine. I never found out which I wanted (some seemed too mature, some too juvenile; some seemed to much high fashion, some seemed too gossip-y; I wanted wearable, affordable inspiration). One of the magazines I thought of was Burda, to get fashion ideas and patterns. But I want to buy a copy first before I subscribe. Maybe this is a push in that direction.
The irony is that I will (probably) buy a Burda magazine. The company as a total looses nothing. One magazine is more expensive than one Burdastyle pattern (just the price, not including paper and ink). But not by much. One magazine contains more patterns than just one a hopefully more inspiration. I won’t have to print and tape the patterns. I hope I can pick one magazine up today.
Just a few days ago I was telling SIL about a site with free patterns. I’ve been writing here many times about that great site with free patterns. No more. As I find my now errors I will edit them and I won’t recommend this site anymore. I do like the community and getting help in the forum, but to be honest I was a Craftster first. It’s actually a bit sad, because I think that the site will lose what made it appeal to people and many prospective members might never sign up. I’m not giving up hope, but it’s a bit sad.
Posted by: eitchy on: November 24, 2008
Two thin mattresses. Four sofa cushions. One laptop. Two plates, two sets of cutlery, two glasses. Two books, one deck of cards, some dice.
This is the list of what we currently have in our flat. Saturday was spent packing and yesterday all the stuff was moved. However, we cannot move ourselves until tomorrow so it’ll be two evenings without anything, the only things to sit on are the sofa cushions and the only thing to entertain us is the laptop. Boredom aplenty yesterday, even though we were very tired.
But it feels great to have moved all of the stuff and that we’re to follow just tomorrow. I get the day off from work, and after the bank errands I will go to our house and just enjoy the day there. I have three things I really need to do; assemble the bed, grocery shopping and cleaning dishes and glasses. Assembling the kitchen table might also be up there on the list.
We will have people cleaning the flat for us, we hope. I have contacted a firm and they’ve said they will do it this week, but cannot give me a more specific time. They will come and get the key tonight, so hopefully I can get some answers then.
As I was showering yesterday I got a great idea. I could go to the movies today. Just me, to see Twilight. I don’t think boyfriend wants to see it, and he’s away on Mondays anyway, so I was glad that I came up with this idea. But then I remembered that they were supposed to pick up the key today, after five; the movie starts at six thirty. Boyfriend had plans to work late so he can take more time off tomorrow. I must leave ten to six to get to the cinema on time, so I hope he’s home by then, but I totally understand that he wants tomorrow off.
If I can’t go, I guess I will have to make do with my computer, good thing Youtube exists. I already have a backup plan; boyfriend’s going out on the 12th , so I can go then if I won’t be able to tonight.
I’m longing for tomorrow, moving into our own house! We can do whatever we want there, it’s beautiful and peaceful in the surroundings. I just can’t believe it. So far all of our stuff is in the living room, so we must start with moving the stuff to the proper room. Then unpacking and, most importantly, deciding what to put where, what to change and so on.
Just one more night of uncomfortable sleep, on Wednesday I’ll wake up in our own, beautiful house.
(Addition: Boyfriend did let me go. I’ve talked to the cleaning company and boyfriend and set a time. Boyfriend says I should go, so I’ll obey. Tonight it’s me and the Cullens)
Posted by: eitchy on: November 24, 2008
On my birthday last weekend it was time for our family tradition; dinner and the new Bond movie. It’s not a birthday tradition, it just happened to fall on my birthday this time around.
So, Quantum of Solace. I had read some reviews and they were not ecstatic over this movie. It didn’t shatter my hopes of it, since I have almost never been disappointed over a Bond movie. Sure, not all are great, but still there’s a certain feeling to them that makes me happy and satisfied with the Bond movies.
This is the part where spoilers will be revealed, so if you’re reading this, not having seen the movie and not wanting to be spoiled, I suggest you stop now. Consider yourself warned.
It starts off with a bang, the car chase scene through the mountains of Italy and then the movie is off and running. Bond is on a vengeance to find the people who were responsible for Vesper’s death. The cool, calm Bond from previous movies is no more, the Bond who is on this vengeance shoots first and asks later, when it is too late for questions. As Bond moves through the potential henchmen, he also uncovers a plot in which a South American general will be help in a coup d’etat in exchange for, unknowingly to the general, all water preserves in the country.
I like that the “Bond Girls” now are competent, independent women. Even if they do need help from Bond, he also needs help from them and it’s not a one way street, with Bond as the hero in all cases. Quite refreshing to see Bond interacting closely with a woman and just dropping her off by the train, with just a kiss.
Daniel Craig is great as Bond, and he’s the most handsome Bond yet. Those blue eyes just pierce you. He captures the loneliness of being James Bond, with more emotion than before; Bond hasn’t become that emotionally distant person that we know from older films (set later than Quantum of Solace), he’s full of rage and anger, which makes him a more complex person than what we’ve seen before.
The plot was good, current. The lack of clean water will be significant and could very well be a currency, unless it’s stopped and clean water is made a right. Today’s villains aren’t your old days’ stereotypical bad guys; today’s villains are smart entrepreneurs who control multinational corporations and conduct their businesses from offices in stead of out on the battlefield with weapons.
The bad guy dies, Bond redeems himself and the world is a better place. But, did you notice that we never got to see Mr White die? He was a key person, so he could not have died off-screen. A return for Bond 23 perhaps?
As expected, this movie did not disappoint me. It’s Bond and I like Bond. And even while it’s been the same character for 40 years, he still evolves with time, both him and the situations around him. I like that they keep on taking him to the next level. But if you like Bond you already know this…
Posted by: eitchy on: November 9, 2008
It’s that time of every other year. The family (in mine, at least) event that we all look forward to.
A new Bond movie!
I look forward to Quantum of Solace, I will see it next Saturday. Even though the reviews haven’t been the best, I’m still excited and besides reviews I’m now avioding every word about this movie.
A few weeks ago we saw Casino Royale, to catch up.
I was excited when this movie was to come out and everyone else as well, it was hyped. Back to the roots for Bond; we were to see how James Bond was born as a double-0 agent.
To me it didn’t disappoint.
Starting off with a new James Bond; Daniel Craig. He was hot, which Bond needs to be, he was into it, athetic, but still having the gentleman bit that he needs. It was great to see James Bond being born, so to speak, and at the same time seeing Daniel Craig being born as James Bond.
The plot was great, a true spy-story with action and an intelligent story incorporated with each other. Maybe there were some scenes that were too long, like the parkour chase in the beginning and the sinking of the house. The also used too many twists in the end, everyone had to screw everyone at one point.
The casting was great, Daniel Craig, as mentioned above, Mads Mikkelsen as the villain was perfect, Eva Green as the cold accountant was great. And M as Judi Dench is always great, pretty much anything Judi Dench does is great.
So, yeah, I enjoyed this movie, but then again, it’s hard to disappoint me with a Bond movie. I’m hoping Quantum of Solace won’t do that either.
And You Know My Name was great. A Bond song with a modern/rock twist.
Posted by: eitchy on: November 8, 2008
Everyday, on my way to work, I pass a fabric store. I’ve really come to like it as they have plenty of different fabrics; in both style and material. They have lots of prints, which I’m trying to incorporate into my work, so it’s been a good source of inspiration for me.
They had a summer sale, with 50% off everything in the store; fabrics, threads, buttons, everything. It kept on going and when I came back from vacation in October the sale was still on-going. I thought it was weird, but of course I welcomed it and bought some fabrics. The last time I was there they had closed one section of the store; I figured it was for renovations. A few weeks ago cardboard was covering all the windows; I stuck to hope and thought they were renovating the entire store, just not that section.
Then I noticed that the marking on the door was gone. My last hope went away. The store had closed. Something else would move in and I’ve been curious as to whether or not it would be a new fabric store. But today I could finally see what would open. A “lifestyle” store (aka interior decoration). Probably an expensive one at that too, since they market themselves as a “lifestyle” store.
I don’t like those stores; they’re usually pretentious and over-priced, hardly ever my style. It makes me kind of sad. It was great going in there trying to find inspiration, or just passing the store while looking to see if they had any new creations on display. The girl who worked there was nice, they had a great variety and, for personal reasons, I liked that it was close to work.
I still have other sources of inspiration, obviously, with Burdastyle and blogs being the major part. But what I like about fabric inspiration is that the fabric must speak to me, come alive inside my head to form a garment. Just looking at other’s creations on pictures don’t do that for me.
My fabric browsing will, sadly, be less frequent now as I must take time to go a fabric store. It’s unfortunate. There is only one more fabric store relatively close to where I work, it’s a bit out of my way, but still close enough that I can go there by bike after work. However I’m not as fond of that store. One store I like is in the outskirts of town, however not in my direction. There is one in the town where I live, but I’m moving from that in just a few weeks.
I guess I’ll have to get by, although it will take away some inspiration and browsing. That’s life.
Posted by: eitchy on: November 3, 2008
Although it’s been a while since I read this book, it’s always been on my to blog list to write about it. But something always came up.
After reading Twilight and New Moon, Eclipse would be the next natural step in line and I doubt that anyone who has read the first two books won’t read this book as well.
So starting off where New Moon took off, Bella and the Cullen family have decided that she will be changed into a vampire by the end of the school year. But there still is one year until that happens.
Victoria, from Twilight, is back to avenge her partner James’ death. She has created an army of new-born vampires, who are raging all over Seattle and have their target set on Bella, since Edward killed Victoria’s partner, she will kill Edward’s.
Strip away all that supernatural and Bella still has to deal with the everyday teenage life. Stuck between two guys who, obviously, don’t like each other. Seeing different futures with them and having to choose her partner and her future.
It’s all and everything, sometimes it’s amazing that a book with so many pages has a relatively thin plot. The use of adjectives is strong, especially in describing Edward through Bella’s eyes and Edward’s description of fragile Bella. It’s almost too much, we get it.
But still there is something addictive about these books and when I had finished this one I was eagerly awaiting Breaking Dawn, I think this is the only time I’ve cared about a book’s release (meaning I don’t care that much about books or certain authors that I await releases of books).
I don’t feel a need to recommend this book. Start off with Twilight, if your interest stays then read New Moon. By that point there won’t be any need to recommend this book since you’d want to know what’ll happen. It’s that addictive.
I might get Twilight for Christmas for my cousin. She’s 18 and like Harry Potter. I haven’t decided yet.
Posted by: eitchy on: November 2, 2008
I decided what to do. Made By Escorpio, the blog designed as my crafting blog, only got to live for two months. Sorry, blog!
Eitchy will be my main blog. This and my chronicle blog (aim is one update a week). That’s it. I’m also, in the process changing themes of this blog. This will be a hobbies’ blog. Crafting, movies, books, TV. No more everyday life and observations. In that spirit, all those posts are now gone. I kept some, but they are a few. I think about 150 posts were lost.
But I’m keeping my thoughts to myself in my journal. There I can say whatever I want, without worrying of someone finding out. That will be my therapy. This will be a creative outlet.
A new and improved Eitchy you might say. It feels good to have made the decision and starting over. I might even do a new theme, just ’cause. I hope I can update this blog more, I hope I can do more crafting once I’m settled in my new home.
And Eitchy will be my loyal companion in the hoobies’ adventures.
Posted by: eitchy on: November 2, 2008
How I wish I had something to write. I’m not giving anything the deserved amount of time; blogging, writing my journal, making clothes, doing things. I’m stuck somewhere where all I do is read message boards, blogs and watching TV shows I’ve seen on Youtube.
It’s not a funny way of life.
Starting when I’ve moved, in a month, I will try and get a grip on my life. Finding something to do, preferably with others. Work on my crafting, start working out more regularly, not spending every evening at home watching TV, falling asleep on the couch. I must stop. It’s, in a way, self-destructive, and I don’t like it, I don’t like the person I’ve become. This is not how life was supposed to be.
I will also try to figure out what to do with my blogs, I currently have three which is at least one too many. This one (well, duh) my crafting blog and my chronicles blog (not linking!). Which should I keep? Right now I hve three and I’m not maintaining any of them. I like the different aspects of them, but I cannot keep them all. Sad, but true. I need a thinker about that. So you might not see me for a while. You might find that this blog will die. You might find some posts removed and the blog changing in style. I hope I can figure this out…